It’s fun running a blog. You get to see what people search online, specifically what words they type, which leads them to find on your blog.
I’d like to share some of these search phrases, along with my comments, in my first Search Engine Sunday. Some of them are quite amusing.
does third date mean she likes me: Yes, I think it does. It’s what I call the ending of dating and the beginning of a relationship, at least an unofficial one. Why? Because both you and her have expectations from each other.
how to get a girls number at a party: I prefer the girl to type in her number into my phone herself. I just open up a new contact screen, enter her first name, and with the most unassuming face I ask her, “Hey, is it okay if I got your info?” as I hand my phone to her. It usually works. She may leave just an email address, but that means she’s taken or hesitant or both.
how to know if he wants a third date: He’ll call you, dear. Just you wait. Send him a text if you’d like, just to say hi and to nudge him along. Or hell, why don’t you ask him out?
awkward after dating guy from work: Well, duh! And it will never stop being awkward, so good job! Seriously though, if you want to make it un-awkward, don’t avoid him. Talk to him whenever you get the chance, at least in the office. It may risk leading him on, but you can always just say no if he asks you out again. Avoiding him will only make things more awkward.
how to be a manly leader in a dating relationship: Oh, geez. Forgive me, but I can’t stop giggling at this phrase. “Manly leader.” Omg, I’m dying. I have a strong feeling this dude isn’t doing too well in dating. Ahem, okay, let me try to be serious now.
You know what the best “manly leader” does? He makes it easy for the woman to be with the man. It’s not about who’s the leader and who’s the follower. It’s about understanding a woman, what makes her tick, what gets her going. And that, my man, is a few things.
But the first step is to stop using phrases like “manly leader.” Throw it out from your mind. You only earn that title when your woman says you are, anyways.
how to win a girls heart who rejected you: Ouch. Well, for one, you have to ask yourself: Are you trying to win her back because you have nothing else going on in your life? It’s not as cool and sexy as they do it in Hollywood. Most guys who want to get the girl back are… how should I politely say… losers. Whether they’re at a dead-end job, they’re not advancing in life overall, they lack ambition, or they have trouble maintaining other relationships such as friendships, they’re just out of it. No wonder they lost the girl.
Get back your life first, man. Don’t just be the man you always wanted to be. Instead, be the man you never knew you could be. Go beyond beyond. Then, I promise you with every molecule within me, you will earn the heart of a woman who will go anywhere to be with you. Be a man first, then find love.
first date tomm..what do i wear ?: For both boys and girls, I recommend bright colors, especially since it’s still summer. Accessorize. Smell good.